Mindfulness and Relaxation

This resource is a tie-in with the third session of our Wellbeing Wednesdays series (Winter 2020). These are group mental health sessions based around symptoms brought on or exacerbated by the COVID pandemic. Our third session was on Mindfulness and Relaxation and was led by Bethany Garner (BSc, MPsycholsci, MBPsS).

So what’s on this page?

  1. Who to contact for more information about the session
  2. Presentation slides from the live session (25/11/2020)
  3. Automatic thought record
  4. Breathing exercise video
  5. EFT Tapping
  6. Metaphor for reframing adversity
  7. Body Scan Script
  8. A-Z of important external resources

Took part and wanted to learn more, or catching up and you want to get in touch with the creator of the session? Contact Bethany Garner (the Be Extra Wellbeing Officer) via email.

Bethany Garner (BSc, MPsycholsci, MBPsS)

We have also made the slides from the presentation available to everyone so you can recap or look over for the first time. These slides are intended for personal use only. Download via the link below:

Automatic thought record

You can download the template here:

Breathing exercise

For a go-to breathing exercise, we love this one by School of Self…

EFT Tapping

Emotional freedom technique (EFT) is an alternative treatment for physical pain and emotional distress. It’s also referred to as tapping or psychological acupressure.


To try out EFT tapping yourself, we recommend heading to healthline’s page which offers a 5 step guide. You can check out their page here.

Reframing adversity metaphor

The Constant Rock metaphor reframes adversity as being what makes people stronger, that experience teaches and shapes you, and that you can choose to rejoice in your own hard earned strength and use that to renew yourself constantly.


This metaphor was designed to help people work through constant adversity and reframe it in a way that helped them handle it better.The whole metaphor is about a rock at the beach, and you can read the whole thing here.

Body Scan Script

This piece is by Shilagh Mirgain, PhD, for UW Cultivating Well-Being: A Neuroscientific Approach.

“Begin by making yourself comfortable. Sit in a chair and allow your back to be straight, but not stiff, with your feet on the ground. You could also do this practice standing or if you prefer, you can lie down and have your head supported. Your hands could be resting gently in your lap or at your side. Allow your eyes to close, or to remain open with a soft gaze.

Take several long, slow, deep breaths. Breathing in fully and exhaling slowly. Breathe in through your nose and out through your nose or mouth. Feel your stomach expand on an inhale and relax and let go as you exhale.

Begin to let go of noises around you. Begin to shift your attention from outside to inside yourself. If you are distracted by sounds in the room, simply notice this and bring your focus back to your breathing.

Now slowly bring your attention down to your feet. Begin observing sensations in your feet. You might want to wiggle your toes a little, feeling your toes against your socks or shoes. Just notice, without judgment. You might imagine sending your breath down to your feet, as if the breath is traveling through the nose to the lungs and through the abdomen all the way down to your feet.

And then back up again out through your nose and lungs. Perhaps you don’t feel anything at all. That is fine, too. Just allow yourself to feel the sensation of not feeling anything.

When you are ready, allow your feet to dissolve in your mind’s eye and move your attention up to your ankles, calves, knees and thighs. Observe the sensations you are experiencing throughout your legs. Breathe into and breathe out of the legs. If your mind begins to wander during this exercise, gently notice this without judgment and bring your mind back to noticing the sensations in your legs. If you notice any discomfort, pain or stiffness, don’t judge this. Just simply notice it.

Observe how all sensations rise and fall, shift and change moment to moment. Notice how no sensation is permanent. Just observe and allow the sensations to be in the moment, just as they are. Breathe into and out from the legs.

Then on the next out breath, allow the legs to dissolve in your mind. And move to the sensations in your lower back and pelvis. Softening and releasing as you breathe in and out. Slowly move your attention up to your mid back and upper back. Become curious about the sensations here. You may become aware of sensations in the muscle, temperature or points of contact with furniture or the bed. With each outbreath, you may let go of tension you are carrying. And then very gently shift your focus to your stomach and all the internal organs here. Perhaps you notice the feeling of clothing, the process of digestion or the belly rising or falling with each breath. If you notice opinions arising about these areas, gently let these go and return to noticing sensations.

As you continue to breathe, bring your awareness to the chest and heart region and just notice your heartbeat. Observe how the chest rises during the inhale and how the chest falls during the exhale. Let go of any judgments that may arise. On the next outbreath, shift the focus to your hands and fingertips. See if you can channel your breathing into and out of this area as if you are
breathing into and out from your hands. If your mind wanders, gently bring it back to the sensations in your hands.

And then, on the next outbreath, shift the focus and bring your awareness up into your arms. Observe the sensations or lack of sensations that may be occurring there. You might notice some difference between the left arm and the right arm – no need to judge this. As you exhale, you may experience the arm soften and release tensions. Continue to breathe and shift focus to the neck, shoulder and throat region. This is an area where we often have tension. Be with the sensations here. It could be tightness, rigidity or holding. You may notice the shoulders moving along with the breath. Let go of any thoughts or stories you are telling about this area. As you breathe, you may feel tension rolling off your shoulders.

On the next outbreath, shift your focus and direct your attention to the scalp, head and face. Observe all of the sensations occurring there. Notice the movement of the air as you breathe into or out of the nostrils or mouth. As you exhale, you might notice the softening of any tension you may be holding.

And now, let your attention to expand out to include the entire body as a whole. Bring into your awareness the top of your head down to the bottom of your toes. Feel the gentle rhythm of the breath as it moves through the body.

As you come to the end of this practice, take a full, deep breath, taking in all the energy of this practice. Exhale fully. And when you are ready, open your eyes and return your attention to the present moment. As you become fully alert and awake, consider setting the intention that this practice of building awareness will benefit everyone you come in contact with today.”

If you want to download the full script, you can do so by clicking on the link below:

Bethany’s A-Z of important external resources

  • Anxiety UK – Charity providing support if you have been diagnosed with an anxiety condition. Phone 03444 775 774 (Mon-Fri, 9.30am – 5.30pm)
  • Bipolar UK – Charity helping people living with manic depression or bipolar disorder
  • CALM – Campaign Against Living Miserably, for men aged 15-35. Phone 0800 58 58 58 (daily, 5pm – 12am)
  • Men’s Health Forum – 24/7 stress support for men by text, chat, or email
  • Mental Health Foundation – Provides information and support for anyone with mental health problems and learning disabilities
  • Mind – Promotes the views and needs of people with mental health problems. Phone 0300 123 3393 (Mon-Fri, 9am – 6pm)
  • No Panic – Charity offering support for sufferers of panic attacks and obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD). Offers a course to help overcome your phobia or OCD. Phone 0844 967 4848 (daily, 10am – 10pm)
  • OCD Action – Support for people with OCD. Includes information on treatment and online resources. Phone 0845 390 6232 (Mon-Fro, 9.30am – 5pm)
  • OCD UK – Charity run by people with OCD, for people with OCD. Includes facts, news, and treatments. Phone 0333 212 7890 (Mon-Fri, 9am – 5pm)
  • Papyrus – Young suicide prevention society. Phone HOPElineUK 0800 068 4141 (Mon-Fri, 10am-5pm, 7pm – 10pm, Sat-Sun, 2pm – 5pm)
  • Samaritans – Confidential support for people experiencing feelings of distress or despair. Phone 116 123 (free 24/7 helpline)
  • SANE – Emotional support, information and guidance for people affected by mental illness and their families and carers.

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